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Killarney Athletic stalwart Donie does it for the love of the game

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Ahead of Killarney Athletic’s 60th anniversary, Adam Moynihan spoke to club stalwart and current chairman Donie Murphy about his passion for soccer (and the Blues)

Donie, Athletic have a big milestone coming up. Sixty years in existence. How and when did you first come to be involved with the club?

I joined the club in the 1974/75 season as an 18-year-old, so I have 50 years done. People think I didn’t play with anyone else but I joined from Woodlawn Rovers, which was a team made up of a group of friends who used to play down in Billy Doyle’s place at the back of Woodlawn. When that team disbanded, 90% of the boys joined Killarney Athletic. The rest is history, as they say. I didn’t move anywhere else after that.

What sort of footballer were you?

I would consider myself a whole-hearted player. I had a bit of pace. Not an awful lot of skill, but good in the air. I was committed and I expected much the same from everybody else. I played centre back all my career except for one game when I was coming back from injury and I was thrown up centre forward for the B team.

And? How did it go?

One game, one goal [laughs]. I had a 100% record.

Who were some of Athletic’s best players that you lined out with?

You had the likes of Brian McCarthy Senior, Denny Hayes, Pat Moynihan, Connie Doc, Pat Shea… You could throw Mikey Sullivan in there as well. He was a whole-hearted player.

What was the highlight of your playing career?

Well, we were runners-up and beaten finalists in a lot of things, but the one thing we did win was the Munster Junior Cup Kerry Area. It was a big thing at the time. We beat Tralee United 1-0. On the other end of the scale we had a relegation battle over in Castleisland. We had to win and we did, 1-0. We were mean enough in defence. Other than that, I played with the Kerry District League in the Oscar Traynor Cup for a couple of seasons, which was nice as well.

When did you hang up the boots?
I stopped playing with Athletic in 1990. But, of course, there was the Killarney Athletic 7-a-side then as well and I played in the over 35s for a few years after that.

You must have fond memories of the 7-a-side, going all the way back to the start in 1976?

The memories are great. Well, for the first tournament in 1976, Brian McCarthy refereed all the games and I was his sidekick. So I didn’t play, I was running the show while he was reffing. But I played with Killarney Hardware for many years alongside Connie Doc, Pat Shea, Seánie Shea… And DD Mulcahy and Dan Leary from Rathmore.

It would have been staged in the Áras Phádraig at the time. What was that like, for those who weren’t around back then?

Ah, it was unbelievable. We had 74 teams one year with every game being played on the one pitch. So it went on for nearly three months of the summer, because it had to. Everyone who was there saw every game. It is handier in Woodlawn, it takes half the time, but up in the Áras, you could see everything. You couldn’t replicate that atmosphere anywhere else. It was like a cauldron.

When did you first coach an underage team? Do you know how many teams you have trained down through the years?

I couldn’t tell you how many but I’ve been involved with a team every year since I started. I took a Community Games team in 1976 and I did that for a few years. And after that it was Killarney Athletic underage teams. I’m not training a team now but I am involved with the U5s and U6s. Now that is tough going [laughs].

So you’re coming up on 50 years of coaching underage teams? That’s a lot of players…

It’s a lot of players, and it’s a lot of names and faces to remember. Christmas in Killarney is a disaster. There are so many fellas away and they come back for Christmas and they’re saying, “Hey, Donie, how’re things?” I probably didn’t change a lot in the last 30 years, but they did!

What’s your coaching philosophy?

My philosophy is that communication is very important. Everybody should have a voice. I don’t like talking down to anybody. Once I can communicate my ideas to the kids and they buy into it, that’s the big thing. It’s fine going down training and doing the drills but sometimes they just need to be spoken to.

What is it about working with kids that you enjoy?

First of all, it’s the love of the game. But I do prefer to take – I won’t say underdogs – but maybe a B team, and see can I get them better than what they were. Rather than taking a team of stars who are going to be pretty good anyway, I like to bring on the next category of players. That’s what I measure myself against. Within a season, are we better against an opponent in the reverse fixture than we were the first time we played them? I like to see players that are maybe ‘middle of the road’ improving.

Do you find the kids easy or difficult to manage? Do many of them have long-term aspirations of playing professional football?

In general I’ve always found the kids to be great. Boys and girls. I think the girls listen a bit more than the boys [laughs]. Diarmuid O’Carroll and Brendan Moloney have shown that it is possible to go pro. And now Luke Doolan is with Kerry FC. He’s a man who might make it, and he came all the way up along through the ranks. So it is possible.

Do you watch a lot of soccer in your free time?

I do. My wife (Marie) will probably tell me I watch too much soccer. I’m an avid Spurs fan. But I do like to watch other sports as well to switch off.

How would you describe Killarney Athletic’s rivalry with Killarney Celtic?

In the early days it used to be a kind of friendly rivalry. But I think it’s more than friendship now! I would say it’s fierce. We both have so many teams, we’re playing each other at some age grade nearly every single weekend. You always want to win those games. But even going back to my playing days, if you never won another game, the Celtic game was the one you wanted to win. You have to win the derby game for bragging rights. Unfortunately they’ve have had a little bit more bragging rights than us lately but, you know yourself, the wheel might turn, hopefully.

How different is the soccer scene in Kerry today compared to when you first became involved?

There’s no comparison, really. It’s the pitches and the facilities that are the big thing. When I started playing, it was below in the Half Moon field (near Killarney House). It was a case of: jump the wall, put up the goals, line the pitch, play the game, take down the goals… Everything had to be put away. No dressing rooms or anything like that. But now with the facilities we have at the moment, if you haven’t everything in order for them, they’re not happy [laughs].

But the facilities and the all-weather training pitch help the club grow. We have a lot more teams now, going all down the ages, and obviously there’s a lot more coaching going on as well. The kids get into a system of playing, which is good.

Looking back over all your time at the club, what are your fondest Killarney Athletic memories?

For me it’s the people and the players you meet, and the friends you make. My involvement with Athletic has given me lifelong friends. That’s the best thing about it.

You must be looking forward to the club’s 60th celebration dinner?

I am. It’s a big night for the club and it’s a great opportunity to catch up with people you might not have met for a while. There will definitely be a bit of nostalgia. It’s also a great way for people to support the club. We’re developing a new pitch on a piece of land adjacent to our current pitch, so a percentage of ticket sales is going towards that project. Our 50th was a big celebration and a lot of things have happened since then. We have doubled in size membership-wise and girls now make up around 33% of the club. We’re hoping to go from strength to strength.

And, sadly, some of our club members have passed away since the last anniversary so they’ll be remembered on the night as well.

What are your hopes for the future of Killarney Athletic?

There are a lot of great people volunteering in the club so I don’t have any worries about the future. They will take the club onto the next level. Of course I hope we continue to win trophies, but most of all I hope the people involved, be they players or coaches or officers, will enjoy the experience. Everything else will follow after that.

The Killarney Athletic 60th Celebration Dinner takes place in the Gleneagle Hotel Ballroom on Friday, November 14 at 6.30pm. Tickets available via Audrey (087 4585697), Lisa (087 9365322) and Rose (087 6765064).

They can also be purchased from Colette at the Dromhall Hotel, Brian James, O’Neills and the Blackthorn.

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Marie Meets: Marie Murphy

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Pedalling kindness and serving smiles

For more than twenty-two years, Marie has been the warm heart of the canteen at Killarney Community College. Every weekday from 9am until 2pm she prepared fresh food from scratch, served generations of students and staff and somehow managed to nourish far more than empty bellies.

“There was never a day that I hated getting up out of bed to go to school,” Marie told me.

Now there’s a sentence you don’t hear every day. I couldn’t help thinking there were probably quite a few students over the years who might not have shared that same enthusiasm for early mornings.

When the school’s Breakfast Club became part of her day, it meant an earlier start, but she never saw it as another job to do. She saw it as another opportunity to be there for the young people walking through the school gates.

Schools are remarkable places because every child arrives carrying a story that nobody else can see. Some bounce through the gates full of excitement while others quietly carry worries far bigger than their school bags. You never truly know what kind of morning a child has had before they arrive. Sometimes all it takes is one familiar smile, one cheerful greeting or one person noticing they’re a little quieter than usual to make the day feel just that little bit lighter.

Marie was that person.

She had an ear to the ground without ever making a fuss about it. She knew when to chat, when to encourage and, just as importantly, when to quietly step back.

By lunchtime, however, there was no mistaking who was in charge.

“I’m sure you could hear me over in the Sem telling the children I’d close the canteen if I didn’t see two clear lines,” she laughed.

Among the many treasured retirement cards she received were messages that read, “Marie, you never did close the canteen,” and another that admitted, “Marie, I think I owe you about €30.”

“There was no backchat from the students,” she said. “I find a ‘Hello, how are you?’ costs a person nothing.”

As a testament to just how much Marie meant to school life, a group of students approached members of the teaching staff looking for photographs of her. They carefully put together a scrapbook filled with memories and presented it to her before she left. It was a gift made not because they had to, but because they wanted to.

Outside school, Marie is almost as well known around Killarney for her bicycle as she is for her sandwiches. She has never driven and happily pedals her way around town in every season. Her trusty basket even sports a homemade rain cover fashioned from a plastic tablecloth because, as any seasoned cyclist knows, you have to be prepared for every forecast.

When she is not cycling, she is creating.

Crochet, knitting, sewing, cooking, Marie simply cannot sit still.

“I always need a project,” she smiled.

During the years she worked evening classes in the school canteen, she longed to join the sewing class herself but could never leave the canteen unattended. Instead, she listened while she worked, picked up what she could, bought herself a sewing machine in Lidl and went home and made herself a skirt. That one skirt was only the beginning.

Family, of course, will now take centre stage.

Marie and her husband Donie have three children, Colm, Alan and Aoife, along with five adored grandchildren. Little Gracie is just six weeks old, while Theo, Noah, Ori and Ailbhe ensure there is never a shortage of fun.

This August promises to be one big family celebration. Aoife will be home from the United States with her family, Alan will travel from Alicante, where he teaches, to celebrate his fortieth birthday, and Colm and his family will make the journey from Cork. Add in Donie’s seventieth birthday and there will be plenty to celebrate.

“We’ll do something small as a family,” Marie smiled, “but I’d love us all to go away together for a night or two.”

Marie may have parked her apron, but don’t expect her to put the brakes on.

Deirdre, one of her colleagues, smiled as she remembered that Marie’s favourite word was “Nowso.”

Karen said the echo of Marie’s infectious laugh will be missed throughout the school.

Marie Keane wished her “a retirement as wonderful as you are.”

Friend and colleague Brian O’Reilly perhaps summed it up best when he said, “Retirement is not the end of the road for Marie. It’s the beginning of a new adventure.”

Retirement may mean the end of Marie’s daily cycle to Killarney Community College, but the kindness she quietly pedalled into the lives of generations of young people over the past twenty two years will continue long after the school bell rings. Every morning she offered far more than breakfast. She offered familiarity, encouragement and the reassuring feeling that someone had noticed them. In a busy school, and in an even busier world, that is a gift beyond measure.

Knowing Marie, retirement won’t slow her down. There will be sewing projects to finish, grandchildren to spoil, bicycles to pedal and plenty of new adventures to enjoy. The bicycle will still be rolling through the streets of Killarney. It will just have a little more time to enjoy the journey.

Photo & Story by Marie Carroll O’Sullivan

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West End House presents ‘By the Bog of Cats’

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The West End House School of Arts will present an upcoming adaptation of Marina Carr’s acclaimed play, By the Bog of Cats, later this month.


The production is directed by Charlie Hughes and will run on July 29 and July 30 at the Great Southern Hotel.

Set in the landscape of the rural Irish bogs, Carr’s play follows the story of Hester Swane, a woman with a deep connection to her land.

Tormented by the memory of her mother who abandoned her, Hester faces further betrayal by the father of her child, leading her on a path of vengeance as her history is revealed.


Tickets for the performances are priced at €20. Bookings can be made online via Eventbrite or by calling 087 13 77 196.

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